I spent years in the restaurant business. Now I run a card shop. Two industries with almost nothing in common, different customers, differe…
By Christopher Hamze · Archived October 2, 2026
I spent years in the restaurant business. Now I run a card shop.
Two industries with almost nothing in common, different customers, different products, different everything.
Same exact problem with reviews.
I learned early how much one bad review can sting an operator. I've seen what it does to a kitchen on a Monday morning. And maybe because of that, I've never left a one-star review in my life. I found a hair in my food more than once. Said nothing.
So now that I'm reading every review that comes into Izzi's Gym, I keep getting stuck on one question:
When someone leaves a bad review, what's the actual goal?
Are you warning the next customer? Or are you punishing the business?
Those aren't the same thing. A warning says "here's what happened, decide for yourself." A punishment says "I want this to cost them."
Here's my bias, and I'll own it: most reviews are a snapshot.
One moment, often someone's worst day, or a gap in expectations, frozen forever for strangers to see. Meanwhile the regulars who show up every week almost never write a thing.
Truly bad businesses don't last; the market sorts them out. So most one-stars land on real businesses that just had an off day.
I could be wrong — I'm on the receiving end now, so I've got a blind spot.
If you're someone who leaves reviews: when you leave a bad one, what are you hoping happens next?